Dell Latitude XT HDD onboard connectors Name?

Hey,

Can someone help me to find the onboard hdd connectors name?

i thought the 40GB HDD in my Dell Latitude XT is defective.
so purchased the 80GB one but after i couldnt see any disks i dissambled the Latitute XT.
but i realised that i broke the mainboard soldered connector before 2 years.

i dont wish to replace the whole mainboard.(to expensive in my country)
i will just remove the connector and soldering a new one.

But cant find that connector or the connectors Name.
The ZIF HDD cable looks like that:

The broken connector wich i am searching looks like that:

could only find some 40pin smartphone lcd connectors like that.

Will that work when i purchase something like that and solder it?