question regarding my dual monitors

I have a primary monitor (Acer p241w 24") and another monitor i got (Acer x203h 20") so i could multi task while i was gaming and on the internet.  Well the setup works great on games that can be played in a windowed mode, but for battlefield that can be the alternate screen freezes as the battlefield launches and if i move the mouse over to the other screen and click back on it the media player comes back up and the game moves to the start bar in the other window lol. Very annoying.  The media player never stops lpaying whatever it is either y ou just cant see whats going on.  Any help would be great.  I set up the monitors to run independantly with the nVidia settings.  I dont see an upload option anymore so i will paste some of my dxdiag here

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System Information
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Time of this report: 4/2/2009, 19:40:03
       Machine name: DANIEL-PC
   Operating System: Windows Vista™ Home Premium (6.0, Build 6000) (6000.vista_gdr.080917-1612)
           Language: English (Regional Setting: English)
System Manufacturer: Dell Inc.
       System Model: Dell XPS420                 
               BIOS: Phoenix ROM BIOS PLUS Version 1.10 A06
          Processor: Intel(R) Core(TM)2 Duo CPU     E6850  @ 3.00GHz (2 CPUs), ~3.0GHz
             Memory: 3326MB RAM
          Page File: 1949MB used, 4893MB available
        Windows Dir: C:\Windows
    DirectX Version: DirectX 10
DX Setup Parameters: Not found
     DxDiag Version: 6.00.6000.16386 32bit Unicode

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Display Devices
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        Card name: NVIDIA GeForce 8800 GT
     Manufacturer: NVIDIA
        Chip type: GeForce 8800 GT
         DAC type: Integrated RAMDAC
       Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_10DE&DEV_0611&SUBSYS_053C10DE&REV_A2
   Display Memory: 1901 MB
 Dedicated Memory: 495 MB
    Shared Memory: 1406 MB
     Current Mode: 1920 x 1200 (32 bit) (59Hz)
          Monitor: Generic PnP Monitor
      Driver Name: nvd3dum.dll,nvwgf2um.dll
   Driver Version: 7.15.0011.7474 (English)
      DDI Version: 9Ex
Driver Attributes: Final Retail
 Driver Date/Size: 3/24/2008 19:52:00, 5537792 bytes
      WHQL Logo'd: Yes
  WHQL Date Stamp:
Device Identifier: {D7B71E3E-4551-11CF-5C6E-372502C2CA35}
        Vendor ID: 0x10DE
        Device ID: 0x0611
        SubSys ID: 0x053C10DE
      Revision ID: 0x00A2
      Revision ID: 0x00A2
      Video Accel: ModeMPEG2_A ModeMPEG2_C ModeVC1_C ModeWMV9_C ModeVC1_B ModeWMV9_B ModeVC1_A ModeWMV9_A

        Card name: NVIDIA GeForce 8800 GT
     Manufacturer: NVIDIA
        Chip type: GeForce 8800 GT
         DAC type: Integrated RAMDAC
       Device Key: Enum\PCI\VEN_10DE&DEV_0611&SUBSYS_053C10DE&REV_A2
   Display Memory: 1901 MB
 Dedicated Memory: 495 MB
    Shared Memory: 1406 MB
     Current Mode: 1600 x 900 (32 bit) (59Hz)
          Monitor: Generic PnP Monitor
      Driver Name: nvd3dum.dll,nvwgf2um.dll
   Driver Version: 7.15.0011.7474 (English)
      DDI Version: 9Ex
Driver Attributes: Final Retail
 Driver Date/Size: 3/24/2008 19:52:00, 5537792 bytes
      WHQL Logo'd: Yes
  WHQL Date Stamp:
Device Identifier: {D7B71E3E-4551-11CF-5C6E-372502C2CA35}
        Vendor ID: 0x10DE
        Device ID: 0x0611
        SubSys ID: 0x053C10DE
      Revision ID: 0x00A2
      Revision ID: 0x00A2
      Video Accel: ModeMPEG2_A ModeMPEG2_C ModeVC1_C ModeWMV9_C ModeVC1_B ModeWMV9_B ModeVC1_A ModeWMV9_A