Dell Streak Bluetooth Connectivity

Good afternoon

Could anyone please tell me how to connect my Dell Streak with other phones.

With my Nokia 95 I just had to send my file and the recipient typed in the password and the file transferred.

With the Streak, It says Pair and connect to which I say yes. I type in the 4 digit code and it says Paired but NOT CONNECTED.

I have tried so many times, I have given up. Perhaps I am doing something wrong and will stand corrected if I am.

HELP!!!!!!!   John