Aurora R10, three blinking yellow lights

I have seen it a bunch on these forms and reddit.  I have been trying multiple methods for at least four hours to fix this.

I have had my R10 for about a year.  3800X with 2080S.  Water cooled.  1 TB m2 SSD. Liquid cooled. 1000w power supply.  I got the basic RAM so I had been researching many months to upgrade it.  I got a kit I confirmed with many avenues (including this form and the R10 manual would work.  I installed it and it worked perfectly for three weeks or so.  I had it running at its intended 3200 mHz. I had the XMP enabled to OC2 in the BIOS.  I foolishly tried to enable manual XMP settings in the BIOS.  Worst mistake I have ever had.

I had the bright idea this morning to look at utilizing the infinity fabric feature. (I know now I was already using it).  I went in BIOS and changed the speed manually to 1600. Now the computer won't boot up. I just get the blinking yellow light twice and then once. I tried the following to reset the BIOS but not luck:

unplug the computer, remove all the ram from the system, with the computer unplugged, hold the power button for 30 seconds, then remove the CMOS battery for 10 seconds and put it back in. Leave the computer unplugged for 30 minutes. Then install original ram in the correct slots. Then plug in and power on.

I did get the computer to boot to BIOS after repeatedly restarting but then when I tried to change the memory OC to OC2 it shut down and I am back to square one.

I know manually changing the memory OC is what caused this.

If I continuously manually restart the computer 1 out of every 10 times it will boot, but then with I try to enable  OC1 or OC2 in the BIOS again the problem resumes on startup.

I have cleared CMOS and power and tried to boot.  I removed the CMOS battery and replaced.  I also cleared the CMOS settings via this method:

https://www.dell.com/support/manuals/en-uk/alienware-aurora-r10-desktop/alienware-aurora-ryzen-service-manual/clearing-cmos-settings?guid=guid-94341e81-58b7-48a3-9995-f7516b380aff

I pay for premium support, but I would rather not have to go through all of that.

Any one have any idea how I can just permanently fix this?  I am at my wit's end.

I am really just aggravated at how stupid I was to mess with anything.

I have been using ryzen master and ACC for overclocking but only a bit.

Any way I can get my machine back to running order? I have the premium support but I would rather avoid that route.

I have read a lot here about this error but most seems to be geared toward someone who can actually get in BIOS. I can't at this point as it won't start up.