PowerEdge T320 Memory compatable

Out of the group you listed, the only one that looks like it could be compatible would be the Hynix. Plus when looking at dimms for the R510, there is a shared dimm, but it is a 2GB. I don't see any other cross compatible ones listed. So it may be up to trial and error on the ones you have. 

Also you can mix memory brands, as dimm populations can be different as long as the population rules for each socket and mode are followed.

• If dimms of different speeds are mixed, all channels across all CPUs operate at the slowest dimm's common frequency.
• Only one type of dimm is allowed per system: UDIMM or RDIMM. They cannot be mixed.
• The first dimm slot in each channel is color-coded with white ejection tabs for ease of identification.
• Rank Sparing and Mirroring
• Dimms must be installed in each channel starting with the Dimm farthest from the processor. Dimms should be installed with the largest rank count to the smallest. For example, if DR are mixed with SR Dimms, the DRs should be placed in the lowest Dimm slots then the SR Dimms.

Here are a couple part numbers if needed.

D65JJ - 4GB 1600MHz 2RX8

CPX35 - 8GB 1600MHz 2RX4 Low Voltage