Connection issue

I have never been able to establish a connection. Not via auto connect (gmail), VNC or manual with IP address. "Session disconnected" on auto and VNC, "could not connect to server" on manual.
I am on a AT&T wireless 2WIRE router.

DroidX 2.2.1
WIN7 Home Premium
PocketCloud 2.1.5
Ultra VNC WIN32 1.0.9.5

Any advise is appreciated