Aurora R11, issue with BIOS update 1.0.3

So I purchased my Alienware Aurora R11 back in August, I loved it. Now, I'm not so sure I made the right investment because ever since I updated my BIOS to 1.0.3, any type of additional non-Dell OEM memory RAM I try installing on the Aurora R11, the PC won't turn on. My R11 came with 2 16GB Dual Channel HyperX(FM) FURY DDR4 XMP at 3200MHz sticks, I wanted to add more so I purchased 2 16GB Crucial Ballistix Gaming 32GB (2 x 16GB) DDR4-3200 PC4-25600 CL16 Dual Channel Desktop Memory Kit. It was working perfectly fine, until I updated my BIOS to 1.0.3 yesterday. Initially it wouldn't allow me to update it and was getting an error that I had to put the original Kingston Memory Ram's inside to update the BIOS (which they were already in). Dell technical support suggested removing the additional Ballistix RAM I had already installed for the past several months, and it worked, BIOS updated and PC was working fine, until today. Today I try to turn on my PC, it'll turn on for a few seconds and turn off. I tried everything from the videos that Dell's automated system suggests as unplugging power, pressing the button behind the CPU to test the power supply, everything. I thought it could be perhaps I needed to reseat the memory RAM's maybe I didn't put them correctly, removed the ballistix and it worked. Tried putting them back in, nothing, same problem. I even tried reseating the hyper x and ballistix on different slots to see if the slots went bad, tried leaving the hyper x on and try 1 ballistix memory at a time, nothing. Only thing I can think of is the BIOS update wont allow me to add more memory. Contacted Dell support and we tried reinstalling BIOS, ran a systems check, everything is working fine, it only stops working when I add the additional memory. Now, I'm just frustrated and frustrated if I should even try buying another set of RAM, maybe buying the same brand that came with the R11, but on Dell's website its a rip off. I feel like I'm being forced to buy more from Dell in order for me to upgrade my PC, which a consumer should never feel like this.